Orgasms. Everyone enjoys them. Not only do they feel amazing but they are good for your health. They help relieve stress, anxiety and can even get rid of pain such as headaches. They can also help with insomnia and any other sleep disorders.

Men who have a lot of casual sex are known as “legends” and get praises for it whilst women are still being called “sluts” and “whores”. And casual sex can mean anything from one night stands to having a “fuck buddy”.

At the end of the day whether you are single or in a relationship you still have needs. And that’s all sex is; a need. Similar to food, water or sleep, sex is a psychological need. We shouldn’t feel shame for wanting it.

Before writing this blog post I went to my twitter and did a poll asking women if when they were single whether they had casual sex. Below are the results.

As you can see the majority of single women tend to have casual sex.

I’ve seen so many memes where they suggest if a woman has a lot of casual sex end up with a baggy vagina. If a woman can give birth to a 10 pound baby and have her vagina go back to its original shape than your 4 inch penis isn’t going to do anything.

What’s really stupid is if a woman has a boyfriend or partner and is having sex with him all the time her pussy is fine, it is only when a woman has sex with different men every week does she have a problem.

Your logic makes no sense.

I also don’t think there is anything wrong with having sex on the first date. When you are dating you are looking for a partner you can be compatible with, this includes in the bedroom as well. You can meet the smartest, most attractive and funniest guy in the world but if you two don’t work well when it comes down to sex you will eventually get bored. Having sex on the first date just means there is less heartbreak involved.

Women are normally slut shamed because they feel comfortable with their sexuality and their body. If you feel confident with your naked body you are more likely to have casual sex. Due to the magazine and diet pills industries women are taught that we need to hate ourselves and the way we look. Women tend to slut shame other women because they are jealous that they are happy in their own skin.

It’s almost 2020 and women shouldn’t feel ashamed to admit they enjoy having sex.

As long as the sex is consensual and safe I don’t see what the problem is.

I’m not a slut for enjoying sex. Sex is a 2 way activity so if only one of you is enjoying yourself then you have a problem.

Gracie Victoria Hemphill x